"Wow my big butt is getting FAT from all this, working, working on my LIST!"

It's amazing how fast time flies when you're having fun! But I could really use a nice vacay again!

This past weekend we went to visit our friends in Maine, Old Orchard Beach
Managed to fit in a bit of shopping at Macy's of course!

 It was quite fun but tooooo darn short!

 I realized how much I love love love the beach as much as I love shopping. I particularly love the smell and feel of the ocean!

So now my goal just got loftier! I think I'd love to be able to work half the year by the ocean just blogging away! Let's see... maybe by February would be good start.

Just go on different cruises and go island hopping and visit all kinds of beaches so I can pick a nice place to live half the year!


Now that's a flippin goal...a TARGET to hit for!

The other half of the year... I'll figure it out when I get there. But First things First...
Gotta wake up and finish what I started! LOL!



There are no guarantees so far... but with 'hard work' I was able to lose some weight and accomplish some goals. But heck.. i got fat again but no worries, I'll get my SEXY back in 2 weeks hahahhaha... but ya..all it really takes is WORK!


So why shouldn't I get my place by the ocean? Why should it be different for any LOFTY GOALS!
You just got to WORK at it!

I have no doubt I'll make it to my Ocean front home preferably in the Caribbeans or wherever...
A lot of things have materialized so far...  why shouldn't this one?

Now to get off my big butt and work-out a bit! hehehe!


BTW: I have my other blog site set up... it's quite interesting i must add. Yet..Hubby said I'm 'all over the place again!'
But Who CARES...that's how I like it! And I have method to my madness, you'll soon see!

And well... i think by the time the year is over, my readers or followers will have
ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) as well. LOL!

WOW...Bath Bombs knocked me out like a light!

I haven't slept like this in months where I'm just getting up and the  sun is about to scorch through my garden and I'm afraid it's gonna  burn my masterpiece! Lol!

First of all I sleep really late then  wake up at 5:30-ish every darn morning like an alarm clock setting off in my head...It's ridiculous!

Perhaps its because my mind and body is really stressed lately and going through the worst ADD period as well. But hey... a big change is coming on for sure!

I'm definitely making some 'drastic' yet 'awesome' adjustments in my life.
Just the thought of having accomplished much these past few months throws me off completely!
The month of July is dedicated to finishing up unfinished list and  planning new ones and I promise you...

It's going to be a very exciting DIVALICIOUS YEAR ahead!!!

I'm excited yet I'm really very pooped and I'm finally starting to wind down that as you can

tell I'm finally blogging!

I have so much material to share that it's gonna drop on all of you my BLOG LUVERS

like a BOMB!!!

WATCH OUT!!!  Lots of Luvin coming your way!

Back TO LAST NIGHTS EVENT.

I finally felt rested thanks to my loving and  wonderful hubby who insisted that I destress

He prepared a nice candlelit bath with Lush Products that he brought 
back from England last week. It was quite awesome as I watched the 
heart-shaped bath product fizzle and dissolve in the water leaving 
trails of pretty rose petals.

I felt like a pretty little princess in my bath garden LOL!

It was tough to feel relax and do nothing but I did just that.

Then afterwards I got a massage treat with the same products from Lush and 
YEAH Baby!... It was a heart-shape bath butter that melts in your hands and smelled like 
chocolates!!!... WOW!

The aroma in the room was heavenly, I couldn't believe it!

I was enjoying the smell of chocolates more than the massage itself 
(being a chocoholic and all)..LOL!

Now I'm up late and can still smell chocolates and uhhmmm wondering if they HAVE

Chocolate Flavored Soaps and Lotions!
Hhmmmm Yummm!

NOTICE:  I'm MOVING my BLOGS from here as of AUGUST 1st and leaving this site for general info.

It’s been an INSANE Year and I’m getting way too old for Menstrual CRAMPS dang it!!!

This morning I was wondering if I was having a heart attack

because I was experiencing chest pains and very bad cramping.

I was curled up in my sofa all day and was wondering if I was just having heat stroke or

just a heart burn.

I finally took 2 advils and pooof… ahhh the release of natural….‘fart’ bwahahaha...lol!!!

Time of the month… cramps, pain and the whole bit!

Dang it… I thought I was all over it?

But it comes back often… the pms cramping…maybe because I haven’t fully grown up yet… still acting and sometimes dressing like a teenager (as one of my sons would say)

Ok so you see, I still have the teenage menstrual cramping so I must still be young!?!#@?

Duh…

Dare Diva… You are going to be 41 tomorrow and you’re already a GRANDMA on top

of it!

So FACE the MUSIC woman!!!

LOL…(thinking out loud of course)

Ok, like I said, it’s been an insane year. My ADD had acted up but that’s nothing new.

Everytime you see me disappear from Facebook or my Blog, you know why.

But everything is for a reason. I'm always out there learning something anyhow!

BUT the truth is that I was actually busy finishing up the

"LIST of 40 things I would do before I turned 41"

And one of the things I really wanted to do was finish this whole website…

As you can see, it’s not yet done! So I’m giving myself a few extra days. I’ve been working so hard to finish that list and I really just started in January and they were quite lofty goals I tell ya!

But of course... for every GOALS, there are ROADBLOCKS... and guess what..

I succumbed to the distractions and that's why I am behind!

Thats Right...

I was busy being NAUGHTY!!!

Naughty to the point where I had to BE VERY GOOD and RESTITUTE for my

Naughtiness.

This weekend, my hubby thought that it would be great if instead of getting so

much gifts for my huge "End of 40th Birthday Party" this year…. That I would..

Give away gifts instead!!!

So we did just that because last year I had way too many wonderful gifts that I had no clue what to do with because I’m the shopaholic that hoards bags of stuff in my closet and get caught wearing tags on my clothes in public.

So my genius husband decided to ask friends to bring a bag of non-perishable items to give to Sun Youth Organization locally. We had a whole van load and the staff had to wheel it in two shopping carts several times.

Unloading the gifts to SUN YOUTH CANADA, Montreal, June 26, 2011

I felt great… I felt wonderful… but most of all…

I felt almost forgiven, but not completely yet! LOL!

I have some confessions to make and I won’t do it here…

It would have to be another day and yes… I will strip myself of all the

bad things that clutter my soul and you guys will benefit.

I will give away stuff… and I’m always willing to

SHARE because I truly do CARE

I am the Dare Diva and this time

I’m back with a few gifts in the bag!

Come back often.

Oh My Goodness...What the DEVIL is Happening to ME!!!

Do you ever wonder if someone is pulling a big joke on you?

It's crazy how sometimes I feel like a puppet being played on a string

from 'some powefully unknown forces' up there! LOL!

The funny thing is that I think someone thinks I am Special enough to 'FOOL AROUND' with and use as an example for some kind of important messages to send out in cyberspace. hehe!

Yes folks... I had some crazy experiences last month and I can tell you, it's so DARN POWERFUL that even EATING which I LOVE to do became a distraction!

So although I felt 'Pulled', 'Tugged' in all directions as if the DEVIL himself came with his army... the Madness finally stopped yesterday!

YESTERDAY afternoon: 

The questions: "WHY...WHY ....WHY is this happening to me?"

WOW...I found myself talking as if I was going straight to the 'mental hospital'

DD:    Hello, who is pulling my strings up there?

DD:    Can you answer me?

DD:   What's going on with me? Is it because I'm so darn close to FINISHING MY  LIST?

DD: .....OMG....HELLO!!!!...Answer me DARN IT, I only have 28 DAYS LEFT till my DEADLINE!!!

GOD:  (Still no answer)

DD:    In prayer mode: "Please help me understand what's going on and get focused PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!

Call me a TOTAL NUTHEAD...5:30 am this morning... I was prompted to take a long WALK so I DID!

I decided not to put any music, detach from that awful loop of worldly music that's in my head. After a 2hr walk by nature and the water... I FELT at total 'PEACE' knowing that 'ALL IS GOOD' and that EVERYTHING I go through, every 'Crazy', 'Wacky', and even 'Painful' experiences is all part of the BIGGER PICTURE! Now I'm under a lot more pressure knowing what an amazing journey this is going to be!

It won't be easy but it will be worth it!

So now... I have only 28 DAYS left but I am aiming for 21 DAYS just to put more pressure on myself!

Time for MIRACLES to happen!

Stay tuned... i'm here to stay until of course there's something else to 'experience' and 'learn' from.

3:45pm - Got 3 Little Things done on my list, but only 20 more BIGGER ones to go!

Come tommorow... DAY 20 - Videologs Craziness

I'm soooo DARN Frustrated with Blogger!

What's taking this blogger dashboard so long to get fixed?

And I've got a million things to do on my list...

Ahhhh if i could just split myself or clone myself 7 times...

this poor world would be in a lot of trouble! LOL!

Ok i'm very SORRY but I have to just go out for a long break, breathe, reconnect with my True-North so I'm just gonna go 

and walk the malls (My other home) LOL!!!

I promise I'll be back with some treats maybe even my first 

Giveaway! ...YAY!
COME BACK SOON!

What the heck is up with my blogger Dashboard?

OMG... this is all I need!!!

Ok I apologize but I am having trouble with my dashboard on blogger.

I noticed many people are still having the same problem since they've had

a maintenance last week. But my dashboard is not working yet and i've got 

a whole bunch of blogs to maintain and i have no idea what happened to my last few 

drafts.

I CANT FIND THEM and I DIDN'T BACK THEM UP! DUHHH!!!

However, i'm able to post but i'm really distracted and can't concentrate...

So go ahead and read yesterday's blog...

I got to get this problem resolved or i'm gonna pull all my hair out soon and start balding like a real grandma! LOL! That's right I'm a grandma 'by surprise'...too young at 40 but heck...she makes me look good!

BTW: That's my grandchild in the picture... she's supercute eh? Yah looks like Lola (grandma)LOL!!!

How To LOSE Followers Faster than Gaining Them! (Part 1)

 DD: 'Hey did you miss me?'

YOU: 'Ah a little bit Dare Diva'

DD:  Why just a little bit?


YOU: Because I have better things to do than come here and look at the same boring post you've had for the past month or so!


DD: Oh I see... you got tired of waiting around for me huh! 
I don't blame you, I was bored myself. But what you didn't know is that I was doing a TEST on HOW TO LOSE FOLLOWERS in a Jiffy!

Hi I'm finally back and I hope that what I have to share will be very useful tips for you. 

So what's more useful than getting followers?

Retaining Followers. (more info to come in the next few days)

IMPORTANT NOTE: If you've been coming here often and see no activity, it's because I'm working on other blog projects which is all connected to this one! And I decided to test a theory that I have about Inactive Blogs. 

Sadly my findings are true and I will be more than happy to share it with you. I know we can all benefit from my findings on my Follow LUV Tips and during the next few weeks I have some more daring stories to help inspire you!!!

...my findings will be shared tomorrow on my STRIP -Tease Tuesdays